I submitted a Muse to Scrapgirls.com and they published it in their daily newsletter. I received a $20 gift certificate for my work. I thought it was pretty cool!
Officially, I am no longer cool. Wait a minute, I'm not sure that I've ever been cool, but I know that I've definitely passed the prime target to ever become cool. After all, I haven't been through a fast food drive-in lately where the cashier has said "You're food will be right out, Miss." Now, it's ma'am. Ma'am. Ugh! Aren't middle-aged women called ma'am? I'm not sure what the official age range is for middle-aged, but I guess I'm entering that state of existence. It's the time of your life when you realize that time just keeps marching on and you are no longer in your 20's. You start to see the effects of time on your skin and on your mindset.
So, let me tell you about my middle-aged life. I have been happily married for nearly 12 years. My husband adores every bit of me. He is a wonderful hard-working man, who shares my designation of not-cool, but that's okay. I adore him, too. We have two beautiful daughters who are the perfect mix of the two of us. Together, we adore them. I have a college degree, if an associate's counts, and a job that I work way too many hours at. I drive a mini-van, which is another black mark on the non-cool spectrum. And, my usual attire is hospital scrubs, because I'm too tired to change my clothes when I get home from work. We try to live by a budget and tend to be quite frugal in many areas. I do many middle-aged activities, like baking bread and clipping coupons. At one point in our married life, we even manufactured our own laundry detergent. I hope to never, ever, be in the financial situation to where we must repeat that practice. It was awful!
Now, I spend my free time playing with my digital scrapbooking goodies. It is my escape from my non-cool, middle-aged world, where I can take the time to leave a legacy for my children to look back upon when they reach their moments of "Ugh… I'm so not cool" and move about their days doing the same things that we ma'am-types do. The more I dive into my scrapbooking and open up the memories from that past that my photo collections bring to mind, the more I realize that who cares if I'm cool or not. I am surrounded by the very best things in life. I have my faith, my family, my husband, my home, my health, my memories and my future.
I hope that through my creative efforts, our posterity will have the opportunity to look back through the pages of my hard work and know a bit about me and about my children. I hope that they will feel a sense of connection with the past and my generation and that my great-great-grandchildren will turn to their parents and say, "Wow, these pages are really cool!"